Hi i am trying to get debug to work with PHP5.3, but it wont load dbg-php-5.3.dll

From phpinfo() :
PHP API 20090626
PHP Extension 20090626
Zend Extension 220090626
Zend Extension Build API220090626,TS,VC9
PHP Extension Build API20090626,TS,VC9
...
Apache Version Apache/2.2.11 (Win32) PHP/5.3.0

From error.log from Apache:
Failed loading C:\Program Files (x86)\NuSphere\PhpED\debugger\server\Windows\x86_VC9\dbg-php-5.3.dll

From php.ini
zend_extension="C:\Program Files (x86)\NuSphere\PhpED\debugger\server\Windows\x86_VC9\dbg-php-5.3.dll"

What do i have to do to get this to work in php 5.3 ?

It works fine for me.
Where did you download php module from? I'd recommend you to try Win32 builds of php available from php.net